Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Wedding Plans



Going to the Chapel and I'm gonna get married! Wow! I didn't realize how much work goes into pulling a Fall wedding together. In planning the wedding, Russell and I are keeping the wedding small (in Savannah, GA) and the reception Huge!! (in Franklin,TN) The beauty of all of this is when God is in this and He is - blessings overflow!!!

My dress is so pretty and what makes it even more beautiful is a dear friend of mine bought it for me. She went with me to go "dress shop" and decided along with the others in the store that we had found "the dress." Amanda, my friend and sister from college days, is singing in the wedding! She has the most beautiful voice! My new friend Latric is making the cake for the reception. She's been a long time listener of Doug and Kim and wanted to give us this incredible gift! I am telling you, Ace of Cakes has nothing on her - she makes the most beautiful cakes!!! My good friend Todd ,who owns a Chick-fil-a, is catering my reception as his gift to us!!!! Wait there is more! Charlotte a long time friend, who is also in radio and is an incredible jazz singer is singing our first dance!! And Douglas' gift to us is DJ-ing the reception!!! We are going to have a blast!!! Chicken dance and all!!

So many details taken care of and we are truly thankful!!! All of this is an incredible reminder to me that God cares about each and every detail of your life and of mine!!! As my Grandmother (who I called Bam Bam) used to sing over the kitchen sink, washing her dishes -"Count your blessings name them one by one, Count your blessings see what God has done!"

Looking forward to Father/Son Bonding


One of the things that we talked about on the show has really stuck with me - "Plan some fun - and then look forward to it" .. It's so hard to plan time off, we seem to just take what we can find - at the last minute - and what we end up doing is (sometimes) limited by our lack of planning. Well - I've been very much looking forward to the weekend of Aug 16th - That's the weekend before Garic's 10th birthday and it's a Father/Son Road Trip weekend - We're headed to see our favorite baseball team (the SF GIANTS!!!) defeat the Atlanta Braves - at Turner Field. I've never been to Atlanta and I'm looking forward to yelling for the visitors and wearing all of our Giants Stuff! (Garic even wants to paint his face!) After the Saturday night game, we're going to the Coca-Cola museum - which should be a blast! Since I didn't grow up with a dad - I want to make sure I give him some good father/son memories ...
SO - do you have planned time off?

WHY NOT? - Plan it, then look forward it to - then enjoy it!

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

We've got a new place to blog

Welcome to our new place to blog ... Maybe that we have a cool new place to blog
we might actually blog more often :)

We have transferred over all the posts from the OLD DK BLOG - so if you are new -
You can still get caught up

Jan-Feb 2008 Info & Links

February 22, 2008
Thanks again to Pastor and author Robert Morgan. His new book is called "Lola Mazola's Happyland Adventure". Robert wrote this book as a help to parents in leading their kids to Christ and explaining John 3:16 - word by word. He's got a great web site - www.LolaMazola.com

February 14, 2008
Happy Valentines Day! Today we featured a special singing Valentine from the Music City Chorus – www.MusicCityChorus.org - For more on your local Barber Shop Chapter – www.BarberShop.org - and to request a singing valentine (or other occasion) – www.SingingValentines.com

Feb. 4, 2008
What Color are you? Recently Kim and I took the "True Colors Test" - and found out that we are different :) but we compliment each other - Her strongest area, was my weakest and my strongest, her weakest - Take the test yourself and see what color you are. www.TrueColorsTest.com Just for fun - here's our results:
Doug - Gold (17) / Orange (16) / Green (11) / Blue (6)
Kim - Blue (20) / Orange (15) / Green (8) / Gold (7)

January 24th - Today is "National Compliment Day" - Here's the web site we mentioned on the show www.ComplimentDay.com

Doug's Mom Update and THE SHACK book

January 10, 2008
Just following up from what I said on the show today - My mom is still not doing very well, at all. The depression continues - the adjustments of the medication continue - and the need for more prayers continue. Thank you, thank you so much for your prayers, emails and encouragement. My mom is now looking into an out-patient program that will intensively monitor her daily .. Now that my step dad, Junius, is back home she can better focus on taking care of her (scroll down to catch up on that side of the story - and to see a photo of my mom and step-dad.)
ON A SIDE NOTE -little tease here for a book that is having a big impact on my family and co-workers (just gave a copy of the book to Kim to read, and just found out the boss is reading it as well) - The book is called The Shack - by William P Young - web site
www.TheShackBook.com - It's a Christian fiction book about how a father reacts and deals with God after his daughter is killed by a serial killer. It's a book that will open up your mind to so many things - I want to say so much more, but I don't want to give anything away - you're better off finding things out on your own, should you choose to read it. (side note - I have a few issues with some of what the book is saying, but remember this is a fiction book) ... I do believe their a LOT of good in this book for a lot of people.)
If you choose to read it - or have read it - drop me an email.

Kim's Engagement Story - Jan 2008

January 2, 2008
What an exciting Christmas break!!!! In case you have not heard my news – I’M ENGAGED!!!!! The man who has captured my heart is someone I have known pretty much my whole life. His name is Russell Ford. He is the older brother of my life long best friend Shelle (Ford) Wilson.

Growing up I saw him as Shelle’s annoying older brother. Funny how time changes things and about fourteen years ago we tried to date each other only to find it was not God’s timing. We both had some growing up to do. We parted ways and I would ask Shelle about him from time to time. Then about six months ago Shelle asked me if I had received an e-mail from Russell. This was a big surprise because, not only had I not heard from him in years but my best friend was “helping” in setting us up by giving him my new e-mail address. Shelle was also sure it wasn’t God’s timing for us14 years ago but now she felt it was a good time to give Russell my e-mail at his request. We have slowly gotten to know each other all over again. It truly has been a God thing.

I have asked my family and friends including Doug to pray with me about this relationship and that God would make it clear that this is the path I should take and that truly has been confirmed. God has done this in HIS timing.

Our wedding date is yet to be planned but I will let you know when the date is set! So it is now with great JOY….ah sorry Doug……that I tell you
www.GetKimHitched.com has come to its end. AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Doug's Mom - Prayers Needed Oct 2007


October 23, 2007
Just a quick update on my parents. My mom is not doing too well - still trying to adjust to the new medicine and trying to figure out where Junius can go for the rehab he needs - perhaps a skilled nursing facility. Lord, please don't let the enemy snatch the seeds that have been sewn in my mom's heart recently.. Thank you again - so much - for your prayers.

October 19, 2007
Just got off the phone with my mom - and Junius made it through the surgery - successfully!! God is so good! Thank you so much for your prayers of support and encouraging emails! Please continue to pray now for his rehab ... 2 metal screws in his hip - and a few years back he had his knees redone - so forget about NOT setting off the metal detector at the airport :) Also, I asked my mom how she was doing and she actually said, "Better, I think". Lord, let this be the beginning of a full recovery for my parents.

October 18, 2007
Thanks again for the prayers and support! I'm just now trying to read through and reply to all the email that came in while I was out. Thank you very much .... On the prayer list is my step dad - Junius. He is slated for surgery tomorrow (Friday) in the afternoon. They're going to put two screws in his hip. Mom is holding it together as best as possible .... Thank you for your prayers.

October 17, 2007 - Midnight
I can only hold onto God's Word ... "Behold the plans I have for you, plans to prosper and not to harm" ... "Don't be anxious about anything" ... "He will never leave you nor forsake you" ...
Got home from my week with mom - the last night and the morning were tough - It's hard to say good-bye. After dinner I got a call that my step-dad, Junius (94) had slipped and fallen in the backyard - my mom calls 911 and follows the ambulance to the hospital - he's in a lot of pain. Cracked hip - he's admitted to the hospital ... She feels her 'rock' is gone - she doesn't think she can make it. What timing! She wanted me to stay longer, but it wasn't possible. God knew. Garic, my 9-year old said it best - "God knew before Junius was born that this was going to happen". Yes, sunshine - He did. Thank you for your prayers - please continue to pray for my mom - Michelle, my step-dad, Junius and my family as well. I'm exhausted. (FYI - this picture is about "10ish" years old)

October 14, 2007
Thank you for your prayers and support. This has been a difficult weekend. The medication that the doctor gave my mom on Friday doesn't seem to be making any difference. She is still very anxious and is flooded with negative, irrational thoughts that really paralyze her - she struggles with the most simple decisions .... It doesn't make any sense, she knows she is stronger than this - but the rebuild from this nervous break down is going to take time. Please pray for Monday and Tuesday, that they will be good days ... That when I fly home on Tuesday morning my mom will feel stronger. We went to church today, we have prayed and read the Word like never before. I know God is at work in her life. My prayer is that she will see daylight - soon.

October 11, 2007
The mind is powerful - very powerful. The Bible tells us that God does not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, of love and of a sound mind. I ask for prayer for mom - for a sound mind. Since I've been here, it's been good and bad - and when it's bad, it can be very bad. They have tried 3 different meds on my mom over the past 3 months. There are times when she is beside herself with panic, anxiety and worry. Please be in prayer for a meeting tomorrow (Fri) at 4:30pm/pacific time. This will be a meeting with the doc that regulates her medicine, please pray that God will give him supernatural wisdom in adjusting/altering/whatever is needed for my mom's medication. Please pray that as a result of that adjustment she can begin to see some light at the end of this tunnel of panic and depression. In between it all, my mom and I have had time to hug, to pray, to read the Word together. God is good! Please Lord, hurry. Thank you so much for your prayers, your support, and your emails.

October 8, 2007
Prayer! It’s powerful. I need some. After tomorrow’s show I’m leaving to spend a week with my mom. She has been such a strong woman. My mom raised me by herself until I was 11, then she remarried. She went to school and studied hard – becoming a Nurse, later she got her Masters – and still later her law degree. Right now she is dealing with severe depression – she’s trying to work with the doctors and regulate her medicine – she praying to see some light at the end of this tunnel. On top of this depression that has been pulling her down for the past two months – she’s been dealing with M-S for over 10 years. I know God has a plan. I know God has a purpose in everything. Please pray for my mom’s healing, please pray for my week with her. Thank you – thank you that you care enough to allow Kim and I into your homes and that you would consider praying for my mom.